Memories don’t leave like people do; They always stay with you...
Sir Tom Jones
Men and some animals (known to us) have
memories, however vague or strong they might be. We will not be able to say
whether animals could have favourite memories, but as human beings many of us
have some or more favourite memories. Well, so do I. In fact, I have too many
memories that many of them are more of a burden as I belong to the breed that
forgives a lot but seldom forgets!
So I was dwelling on my favourite
memories and then started writing this blog with one favourite memory of mine
(in fact that of almost all of our siblings), which is about my father. I have
so many memories of my father that I can perhaps write a book on them. So this
is a slice of those.
As mentioned by me in my earlier blogs,
my father was working in whichever way his talent pushed him, to make ends
meet.
During the early 1960s, he started
stabilising a bit when he started working for a gentleman who ran two companies
– one was called SYGA Corporation and the other SYGA Movies. My father was the
manager of the first and an associate director in the second. I have reasonably
distinct and vivid memories of his work in both.
But the favourite memory is from the
first – SYGA Corporation. This was an indenting office in Madras (Chennai), for an Indian company called the Gwalior
Rayon Silk Manufacturing Company Limited (later name changed to Grasim
Industries), with its manufacturing plant located at Mavoor, Kozhikode
(Calicut), Kerala, India (if I am not mistaken, this manufacturing plant does
not exist anymore there). The job of the indenting office was to check on the
availability and prices of raw material needed by the plant, on a daily basis, from
various sources in Chennai, and inform the factory appropriately and promptly so
that their procurement department would place orders directly to a vendor of
their choice.
My father used to go to office around
11.00 am, work in the office to cater to the needs of the plant, as also taking
care of the necessary communications, leave office to go to George and Park
Towns and the Sowcarpet area in Chennai (between Chennai Central Station on the
West, DARE house on the East, Broadway area in the South and Mint/Mannadi area
in the north).
For this purpose, his company did not
provide him with any vehicle, not even a bicycle. So he used to commute
initially by bicycle but as we started growing up he too started aging and
preferred to commute by public transport and the nearest facility to his office was the bus service.
Depending on the day’s requirement of
material, he used to alight sometimes at Wall Tax road (adjacent to Chennai
Central station) and start walking the streets to meet vendors and find out the
availability and prices of the raw material needed for the day.
He would cover areas and streets like
Pai Kadai, Evening Bazaar, Mint Street, Govindappa Naicken Street, Flower
Bazaar, Godown Street, Badrian Street, Anderson Street, Lyons Square, Broadway,
Sembudoss Street, Armenian Street, Thambu Chetty Street, Linghi Chetty Street,
Angappa Naicken Street, Thatha Muthiappan Street, Seven Wells, Mannadi,
Muthialpet, II Line Beach, Burma Bazaar etc., and many more depending on the
need. For at least a couple of decades he was the uncrowned king of these
streets like many other petty traders in these streets too. Every vendor my
father met or had business in these streets loved him.
This walk would continue till about
9.30 pm by which time he would have covered a major portion of the area, when
he finally would call it a day, more because the vendors were closing than
because of lack of energy on his part, and take a bus from Broadway bus stand.
The last buses of the day were always crowded and one needed deftness to find
and hold a seat which my dad used to do with aplomb. Even the most irritated
and irate person used to calm down on seeing his smile.
As I entered school and later college
(which was located at less than 500 meters from his office) he started taking
me around too, just to show me the ‘world’ in its true sense. Being a bit of laissez faire guy that I am, I never had
his energy levels and used to crib often for walking so long and for so many
hours. Being a foodie, one of my favourite cribs was to ask him for evening
snacks; in restaurants where the different aromas used to waft onto the
streets; which he almost always used to pass by saying that we are ending our
work for the day and should not stuff ourselves, else we cannot justify our dinner.
There were times when I used to point blank refuse to accompany him, if he did
not buy me snacks in the evening.
Once or twice a week he also used to buy
and bring home vegetables from ‘Kotwal
Chavadi’ which was the wholesale vegetable market in the city (before it
was relocated to Koyambedu) at the time and was located at Lyons Square. Part
of Broadway near the Lyons Square was cobble stoned (British era) and even in
the normal times it used to be a bit painful to walk on the smooth polished
dome like cobbles. In rainy season it used to be dreadful added with slush and
stink. There used to be ankle deep water filled with vegetable wastes and
walking on the slippery cobbles, without spraining an ankle, was an art.
My father used to hold his office brief
case in one hand, umbrella in the other and used to bargain for vegetables
where no bargaining was available. But those vegetable sellers, who loved my
father, used to offer him good prices and generous in measuring / weighing too.
My father used to wear real stylish cooling glasses or they all just looked
good on him whichever way, but also used to lose them mostly at the vegetable
shops by forgetting to pick them up when they fell from his pocket or when he
placed them on some vegetables while picking the good ones!.
I must have moved with my father in the
evenings like this for several years alright. My cribbing continued, but later,
only much later, could I (the dumb guy that I am) understand the value of my
father’s personal tutelage in teaching me (later, all my siblings) the markets,
the products’ availability, the art of negotiation et al., for which I am
forever indebted to him. Unknown to me then, the seeds, for my qualifying in
Materials Management study, were sown in those days itself.
My favourite memory in this episode is
that somewhere in 1973 (yes, half a century ago) one evening my father asked me
to come to his office straight from college to go to Parry’s corner. We met Mr.
Kishan Lal Khanna, a good friend of my father, at a pre-fixed place on Thambu
Chetty Street and slowly walking through Armenian Street, Broadway, Lyons
square, Bundar street, Govindappa Naicken street, we finally reached Kasi
Chetty street. That was the first time I was entering Kasi Chetty Street as
earlier, there was not much of an occasion for us to go there since it was a
street well known for products in the grey market.
But, apparently, unknown to me as yet, that
was a special day. We went shop after shop where my father was asking for good
and stylish imported wrist watches. Allwyn and Titan were not born yet and HMT
models were considered not stylish enough at that time. Finally both of us could agree upon one model
of a watch, interestingly in grey colour. Those days, my father used to wear a
beautiful white dialled and light weight Swiss ‘Favre Leuba’ watch, and I was wondering why he was buying another
watch, as he is not known to squander his money. This watch, after a deep
bargaining, was fixed for Rs.230.00. My father paid the cash and asked me to
wear it. He had a twinkle in his eyes when he saw me wearing it.
That was my first watch and gifted by my dad on the occasion of my entering a college, the first to do in our family. That was one happy day and this is an unforgettable memory of my father. I tried resurrecting the now defunct watch several times, even last year, but though it has not lost its sheen, it is just not functioning. Perhaps, its function now is to remain a good living memory for me.
Later my first job was in the same area
for about a year and a half when both of us used to meet sometimes in the
evenings and together bring vegetables home. My work over the past eight years
takes me to the same area again and every time I walk on any street in the
area, I find myself walking along with my dad, invisibly though. I see him
everywhere in the area.
Today (14th July) is the day
he passed away six years ago. Interestingly that was a Friday and today is a
Friday too! There has not been a single
day when I don’t think of him or do not reminisce my association with him. He
had been a dad of a different stock and I could not or can’t ever be like him
and I am glad of that, so my father’s uniqueness is unscathed and untouched.
I do hope that he would be busy
wherever he is with that infectious smile of his and bringing more smiles on to
others’ faces, or would he be singing, without a care for time? How I would
love to know!
So folks that’s about it for this blog.
Until the next,
Krutagjnatalu
(Telugu), Nanri (Tamil), Dhanyavaadagalu (Kannada), Nanni (Malayalam),
Dhanyavaad (Hindi), Dhanyosmi (Sanskrit), Thanks (English), Dhonyavaad
(Bangla), Dhanyabad (Oriya and Nepalese), Gracias (Spanish), Grazie (Italian),
Danke Schon (Deutsche), Merci (French), Obrigado (Portuguese), Shukraan (Arabic
and Sudanese), Shukriya (Urdu), Sthoothiy (Sinhalese) Aw-koon (Khmer), Kawp Jai
Lhai Lhai (Laotian), Kob Kun Krab (Thai), Asante (Kiswahili), Maraming Salamat
sa Lahat (Pinoy-Tagalog-Filipino), Tack (Swedish), Fa'afetai (Samoan),
Terima Kasih (Bahasa Indonesian) and Tenkyu (Tok Pisin of Papua New Guinea),
Malo (Tongan), Vinaka Vaka Levu (Fijian)
Hemantha Kumar
Pamarthy
Chennai, India
So soon a year has gone by, Hemanth! I enjoy reading your memories about Appa 🙏
ReplyDeleteHaving lived in Sowcarpet for more than two decades, I relished thinking about each of the streets you have mentioned! Oh, the aroma of the food there.. Feel like having something hot/spicy and also some sweets from there 😊
Thank you dear Maya. Yes I knew that you would be reliving at the area at least for a few minutes! God Bless!
DeleteBest wishes and warm regards
Hemantha Kumar Pamarthy
A very touching narrative on the death anniversary of your dad has kindled memories of my walking along with my dad several decades back, though not as frequently as you did. You seem to me to be a favourite of your dad among your siblings, especially in accompanying him on his daily rounds on those familiar and crowded streets of Georgetown.
ReplyDeleteThe surprise gift of a wrist watch at an apt time is a token of his affection for you and a memento to be cherished for a lifetime.
Thank you so much for your time and kind words dear Mr. Parthasarathy.
DeleteMuch appreciated and much obliged!
Best wishes and warm regards
Hemantha Kumar Pamarthy
Very nicely narrated ji. Fond memories. I also felt like travelled along with u.
ReplyDeleteRegards
SB
Thank you so much for your time and kind words my dear Shreenivas Balaji-nanba.
DeleteMuch appreciated and much obliged!
Best wishes and warm regards
Hemantha Kumar Pamarthy
A touching blog to read about your dad on the death anniversary. It was very emotional and displayed your love, admiration and respect you held for your father. I loved the sentiments displayed. Very well narrated. I really admire your memory .Tfs Hemanth
ReplyDeleteThank you dear Anoo.
ReplyDeleteI wish I could do more for my dad than just these tributes after his demise. I failed him in every one of his expectations of me!
Nevertheless, it is spilt milk now. not much can be done!
Thank you for reading and responding! Much grateful!
Best wishes and warm regards
Hemantha Kumar Pamarthy
Dear sir,
ReplyDeleteRead it now. This is beautiful.
Thank you so much dear Richie Rich!
DeleteBest wishes and warm regards
Hemantha Kumar Pamarthy