Hemantha
Kalam
Kalam - 12
'Finding Joy in Finding'
2014, this 'New Year' has opened very interestingly for me.
Being a Cancerian that I am, I am supposed to be, and truly to a large extent, after
old things. Old books, old wine and old friends not to say of the innumerous
old memories which help me dream better and while away my time when I do not
have much serious work to do.
My education took place in two schools, two colleges, one
university and several institutions and in all these places I had acquaintances,
class mates and friends, out of whom very few are in touch with some or each
other.
The first school was ‘Sri Bala Gurukul’ a school that was (I use
the past tense as the school no longer exists) headed by a foreigner called
Duncan Greenleys (I do earnestly hope that the spelling of his surname is
correct), a kind, white gentleman with an equally white hair and a long white
beard, and managed by a Tamil gentleman called Sarangapani.
My father vaguely
remembers Duncan Greenleys as a person from South Africa but who liked to run a
school in India. Either he was not married or had forsaken his family, as he
used to live alone in a room in the first floor of the school itself. I am not
certain of the time but remember that he died while I was in my 4th
standard, I think. I long to find more details and write a tribute on him with
more and relevant details. At this point I only know him as a very kind, ever
smiling, child loving gentle soul. He used to stand at the gate of the school
every morning and every evening and children used to crawl on to him like
monkeys. I remember him having no less than a burden of a pack of at least six
children, like monkeys, on him at any given point of time, while he was at the
gates.
During the time of classes, he used to gently visit the school
premises comprising of a bunch of huts for class rooms always kept very clean
under the shade of Mango trees. A few classes for the seniors (4th
& 5th standards) used to be in the main building which also partly
housed a hostel, a vegetarian mess, Teacher’s room, Office on the ground floor.
The school offered three mediums of study I think. English,
Tamil and Telugu as yours faithfully studied in Telugu Medium till he completed
the 5th Standard and left the school in 1966.
The school catered, among others, to the wards of film
personalities. In my own class, I had classmates Harsha Latha, daughter of the
famous Telugu film actor and later producer (Amrutha Films) Balayya (his son
Tulasi Ram Prasad was my junior by a year), Kesava Rao, son of A very famous
and popular Telugu Film Hero and producer (Pratap Pictures I think) Late T. L.
Kantha Rao (his elder son Pratap was my senior), Rajya Lakshmi, daughter of the
very famous Telugu film Actor Late ‘Mukkamala” who used to be of a towering
personality and his mere presence in a role of a villain (which he was very
famous for) used to be applauded by the audience (his other daughters, who were
like dolls were juniors way under us). Rajya Lakshmi herself was a towering
personality. Then there were Ravindranath, son of the famous Late Drama and
film Actor Nagabhushanam, Suresh Chand son of the famous film director Late V.
Ramachandra Rao (of ‘Paapam Pasivaadu’ and who for long was an Assistant director
to another famous director Aadurthi Subba Rao) and Rama Linga Raju, son of Film producer Subba Raju (Chaya Chithra banner). Then, T.D. Sekhar, brother of the
famous Tamil Actress T.D. Kushala Kumari (Being Rich and famous most of them
used to get their lunch hot in the afternoons, mostly delivered in cars by
their chauffeurs or others in their employ. T.D. Sekhar used to get dishes of crabs
for lunch quite often that he got the moniker ‘Nandu Pudi Sekhar’ (crab catching
Sekhar).
The famous Telugu music director and singer Ghantasala's children were
also studying with us. While Ratna Kumar was one year junior to me his sisters
were juniors to him. Then there were Ravi and Shankar who were my seniors. The
famous comedian Padmanabham’s children were my juniors. My own grand uncle and
famous Music Director Pamarthi’s daughters (my dad's cousins) were in the school. The elder
daughter was a teacher and the younger, Sarada (now holding an important
position in the Central Government of India) a student.
And then there were others too. T. Venkateswar Rao (TV as we
used to call him and till date refer him to) the son of an industrialist (today
TV himself is an industrialist-his was the first house in Madras/Chennai to
have a dish antenna since more than 30 years when none even heard of a dish
antenna), G. K. Venkat Kumar whose parents had a then famous textile shop in
the prime Pondy Bazaar (called Samsons Dresses) next to the then Police
Station. Today, I think Rajiv Jewellers have their shop in that place. B.H. Subrahmanyam
used to be so tall that he earned the moniker ‘LIC’ Building (LIC building in
Madras/Chennai with 14 floors was the tallest building for a very looong time
and was a landmark that it was on any tour itinerary of vacation goers coming in).
V. Madhu Babu, J. Prabhakar and C. Lakshmana were my other class mates. Interestingly,
apart from Rajya Lakshmi, I remember only few girls in my class – Raj Kamal,
Devaki, Geetha and Kanchana (who modeled for ‘Binny’ uniform advertisements).
In 1965 I left Sri Bala Gurukul to join Kesari High School which
was not only the haven for the wards of the film personalities but also a
fertile ground for future film personalities. Majority of the entire school’s
staff and students alike were one way or the other connected with films.
Here, our entourage of students flocking from Sri Bala Gurukul, were
joined by more like Venkataramaiah and Sarojini, nephew and niece of the most
adored and famous multi-lingual and multi faceted film actor Late S. V. Ranga
Rao. Then there is Varalakshmi Devi daughter of the famous producer of movies
like ‘Jarigina Katha’ on the banner of ‘Naagaavali Vijetha’ and later ‘Ramalayam’
on the banner of ‘Raama Vijetha’ (of the Producer duo Prabhakar and Babu Rao).
We had a senior called Vidyullatha who acted in a one film but a well known
film called ‘Sri Sri Sri Maryaada Raamanna’. Later heroines like ‘Jyothi’ and ‘Archana’
who became very famous heroines in Tamil films as also in Telugu films were my
juniors in the school.
We had a Teacher who used to write stories and dialogues for
movies and one teacher who went on to become a Talented Actor, Producer and
eventually to become a Member of Parliament (Rajya Sabha or the upper House). Then
there is T. N. Srinivas who was our teacher’s son and with whom I always had to
compete in English, studies, elocution, oratorical and essay competitions. If
he was first I was one among the next two and vice versa. While leaving the
school I lost to him in English by one mark and he went on to becoming the
school first. Today he is a doctor and is settled in Australia.
Leaving the High School, I went to Pre-University to Dhanraj
Baid Jain college (D.B. Jain College-I was the first batch with my roll number
as 197 if I have not forgotten) for one year - between 1972-73. I had many
classmates there (in fact 100 exactly) but I was rather close to Sudheendran
coming from Perambur, Durai Mohan from Aspirin Garden and Ramachandran from
Saligramam. Today I am in touch only with Ramachandran.
Then I did my under-graduation in commerce (B. Com) in Agurchand
Manmull Jain College (A.M. Jain College) and had several class mates but now am
connected only to Narsimhan in Delhi.
And the story goes on.
In the dusk of my life and when lack of adequate work affords more
time, I keep thinking and try to remember as many names of my class mates as
possible, list them out and try to find one after another to see where they
are, what they are and how they are.
It is an interesting pastime and helps (I fervently hope) keep Alzheimer’s
away?
But the interesting thing is despite all the new tools like
Google, Facebook, Linkedin and Twitter there are many who still manage to hide
away. And then there will be some who simply abscond and these people add more
mystery to ponder about and to life in itself.
It takes scrounging the internet, trying to contacts of contacts
of contact with a hope to contact ‘the missing person’ and in the process, I have
now become something like Simon Wiesenthal (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simon_Wiesenthal)
-ferreting out people/contacts-of course for different purposes altogether
though J
So, coming to 2014, this year has opened quite well for me in
that that I could trace out K. V. Narahari Babu, Re-traced Madhu Babu,
Varalakshmi Devi, T. Kesava Rao and as a bonus, could trace out Gourishankar
(Internal auditor-Apple Credit Corporation) with whom I lost touch in 1977 all
in about 2 weeks. I could trace out that Rajya Lakshmi has become a Judge in
Andhra Pradesh and am trying to contact.
Yet, I need to still find so many and so much that I had lost
and lost touch with.
I need to trace V. Someswara Rao, whom we used to call a ‘Scientist’
seeing his interest in science. I need to trace P. Jaya Kumar, who liked to be
equated to ‘Clint Eastwood’ though no resemblance whatsoever. And within just a
decade’s time I had lost contact with my mentor Mohan G. Gurjale.
How I wish 2014 would continue to be kind and resourceful so
that I can add more ‘heads’ to my count.
While working with Godrej Soaps Limited in Chennai, I had a
colleague called Parameswaran whose table always used to be filled in with a
variety of knick-knacks and anytime he needed something a search used to be
mounted. Interestingly, he also used to have on his table, the legend “Those
proud of keeping an orderly desk never know the thrill of finding something
they thought they had irretrievably lost’
Now I am sure that this quote of Helen Exley is so true to the ‘table
of my life’ which has been anything but orderly as it now appears in hindsight and
every time I find some person / contact, only I know how good ‘finding joy in
finding’ is.
What do you think? You tell me! :-)
Till then,
Krutagjnatalu (Telugu), Nanri (Tamil), Dhanyavaadagalu
(Kannada), Nanni (Malayalam), Dhanyavaad (Hindi), Thanks (English), Dhonyabaad
(Bangla), Gracias (Spanish), Grazie (Italian), Danke Schon (Deutsche), Merci
(French), Obrigado (Portuguese), Shukraan (Arabic), Shukriya (Urdu), Aw-koon
(Khmer), Kawp Jai Lhai Lhai (Laotian), Kob Kun Krab (Thai) and Asante (Kiswahili).
Hemantha Kumar Pamarthy
Chennai, India
Hemanth, I share your passion for "Re Locating my old friends".But I am amazed to read that you are able to recollect so many names from your Ist Std to 5th Std.Wish you all the best for finding more "lost" Friends in 2014.I am in touch with 79 out of 100 who studied with me in A.C.Tech,and we have a yahoo group.Y.G.Mahendra who is my batchmate refers to me as "Pillai Pidikkaravan"as nearly 70% of the yahoo group members were roped in due to my efforts.I have not been as successful with my school mates.I am only in touch with around 10-12 who were either in the same street and/or were an year junior/senior to me.Keep the efforts going.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your kind words.
ReplyDeleteAs I said, the joy in finding something which has been thought to be irretrievably lost is highly intoxicating and the resultant connectivity is a reward beyond comparison.
Yes, I shall continue with my quest as time is running short. Wish you good luck too.
Happy hunting.